To be honest, when I first began writing about life path 4 compatibility I thought I was writing a piece on how to avoid conflict. I thought I was describing how to avoid the situation that is the worst, the one that will lead to the most misery and suffering for you. The thing is, I didn’t really know what I was talking about. I didn’t know if I was describing the best way to avoid conflict, or the worst way.
I have a very simple, and very pragmatic, way of avoiding conflict. As an example, one of the simplest ways to avoid conflict is to not tell another person how you feel, or how someone else feels.
But most people dont realize that they dont have to be like this. At all. But if they do, they will make themselves miserable and unhappy, and they deserve it for that. And then they will get in trouble, because its all too easy to tell people how you feel, or how they feel.
As a rule of thumb, if someone is saying something that you think is hurtful or hurtful to you, or something that you feel would make them or others miserable, you should ignore it, or get out of the way. And if you have an unpleasant feeling about something, you should keep your feelings to yourself until you can think objectively about them.
I don’t think I can say this enough. When you’re a kid, your parents are supposed to be there to protect you. But if they aren’t there to protect you, it’s your fault. If you don’t want an argument, and you don’t want to be told you’re wrong, then don’t do it. And if you have a feeling of injustice, then don’t get into an argument with someone.
We dont really know how to be friends, but we can be friends with someone who doesnt like us, but we dont have to like each other. (We might not want to be friends with them, but we can be friends with them.) So if you like someone, and you have a feeling of injustice, then dont argue with them.
This may seem like an incredibly simple statement, but its probably a good rule of thumb to follow. If you feel that someone has a feeling of injustice, then argue with them. You might want to learn a few more things about them before you go out of your way to antagonize them.
Well, this article was pretty thorough so I’ll just throw it out there that if you feel that you are on a path to becoming a villain, then you should stand up for yourself. If you feel that you are going to eventually like the person you’re with, then you should be there for them. If you think you’re being manipulated into the position you’re in, then you have a moral obligation to fight back.
Well, that sounds like a tall order, but it can be done. You might want to take note of this article from The A.V. Club, because it is quite good. The article covers the two main ways people get on these paths of hate, and it describes two different ways of doing it: the “self-preservation” path, and the “self-assertiveness” path. Most people who take these paths are able to survive and get along quite well.
I have been on these paths since I was a kid, and the main differences are in that I don’t fight back, I fight back as I see fit. I don’t hit people in the face because I feel like the guy didn’t deserve it. I don’t steal stuff because I’m afraid that if I give it back, someone else will get it. I don’t go to school so I don’t have the time to learn how to get along with people.